Are social net sites so easy people are deleting their own common sense ?

Do online social networking sites both help and damage communication skills? Take the online interaction allowed through social networking. More and more people are interacting online because they do not know how to interact with people in the offline world.

Many people can poke on Facebook but they do not know how to communicate occasionally offline. Many guys love adding beautiful random girls online, but they do not know how to make any kind of a friend in the offline world. People who are good at telling the truth online through their social networking blogs and messages to other online contacts, are also usually good at lying about the same things offline and vice versa, because they simply do not know how to communicate in the offline world.

Many people love disagreeing with their virtual friends without any logic, yet the same people do not know how to deal with anyone disagreeing with them in the offline world. Many people know when to block and delete a friend from their online social networking account, yet those same people do not know when an offline friend is actually not a friend and should simply be ignored, and vice versa.

Similarly, other people can talk about honesty and friendship in the online world in a very simple manner, yet they cannot help but complicate the same things in the offline world.
Why? Many people not know how to keep in mind all the different variables involved when communicating in the offline world, including the variable of being selfless sometimes. Are online social networking sites so easy to use that people are deleting their own common sense? I wonder if, at least for some people, the online social networking sites are making them better at portraying an illusion of communication online, yet making those same people clueless as to how to respect others and how to be considerate to others when it comes to socializing and interacting with other people in the offline world.

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